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Friday, April 8, 2011

10 Months!!

Dear Evelina,
You are 10 months old!! You’ve entered double digit territory and in only two short months, we will be celebrating the big O-N-E!! I must admit that the past month has been the most challenging since your birth. Even though your Papa and I love experiencing life through your eyes and find so much joy in watching you grow and develop, the past month was far from filled with sunshine and roses.

The month was plagued with your ever-present cold which caused a cough and runny nose, contributed to you being extremely fussy and clingy, and prevented you from sleeping very well in your crib without being propped up in your car seat (thank goodness you still fit it in!!). Papa and I can’t be certain, but we think your cold also heighted your reflux symptoms and made for some extremely difficult bottle feedings and may have even caused you to stop enjoying even your favorite foods. To top it all off, you cut SIX teeth…OUCH…my poor little baby.

Despite your cold, congestion, coughing, teething, eating challenges, and reflux, you find joy in so many things. Some of your favorites include dismantling your play mat and chomping on the parts, shaking your maracas or banging together objects, deliberately throwing things to the floor while in your high chair, splashing and watching me blow bubbles during bath time, listening to stories, turning and touching the pages in your books, running around your entertainer, sitting and scooting to grab something fun to play with, standing at your Zany Zoo or activity table (or anywhere…you LOVE to stand), dumping out bins of toys, trying your best to get a hold of the laptop, our phones, remotes, glasses (both drinking and eye), listening to me and your Papa play music on your entertainer keyboard, my favorite being Papa’s version of the Rocky theme.

You always flash your biggest smile when I sing the ABC song or the Hello song from our Mommy and Me class. You love when I make animal sounds, especially the monkey sound. Even when you are in the back seat of the car in your car seat, I will make the monkey sound while driving and see you smiling away in your mirror. It is just too cute. I can’t wait to bring you to the zoo to see real monkeys!!


Even though we’ve had challenges during meal times over the past few weeks, you love broccoli, all fruits, pancakes, pizza, grilled cheese, graham crackers and yogurt. You eat much better for your teachers at school then you do for me and your Papa. What’s up with that?

In other developments, you are a chatter box and continue to be a razzberry blowing addict. I don’t *think* you have officially said your first actual word yet, but I have heard “Bye”, “Hi” and “Yeah”. I’m tough, so until I hear a word more than once in the correct context, it won’t be your official first word. Until then, we will enjoy all of your rambling, complete with Mama’s and Dada’s, and continue to teach you all we can.

You are also working on perfecting your pincher grasp and army crawl. Your favorite place to army crawl is on the bed, rushing toward the edge to peek over, which isn’t very safe my darling. You are also determined to pull up to standing, but you haven’t quite figured out that you must get on your knees first. I wouldn’t be surprised if you can pull up before actually crawling on your hands and knees. Either way, you are quite a bundle of energy and are constantly moving….you must have ants in your pants!!


Of course, you continue to be Miss Fuss-bucket during diaper or wardrobe changes, and when we wipe your nose, face or hands…LOOK OUT. You also haven’t been enjoying being on your tummy these days since you would prefer sitting or standing instead. But, it’s Mommy’s goal for you to learn to crawl so practice is required!!

Your cold seems to be winding down, and so far, no new teeth are cutting through so we are hoping this month is full of many new milestones that don’t include getting into the Guinness Book of World Records for the amount of snot mucus a baby can produce!!

I love every little bit of you and look forward to seeing your sweet face each day and being blessed by your smiles and giggles. I can’t imagine a day without your version of hugs and kisses…even if you do pull my hair and pinch my neck.

You are the sunshine of my life,
Mommy

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Goals for 2011 :: Q1 Status

My Goals for 2011 are always in the back of my mind but they have proven to be difficult to achieve.  An endlessly sick/teething/fussy child who is back to taking short naps, and working really put a wrench into any progress on goals.  This is where I'm at: 
  • Organize the pantry in the kitchen -ACHIEVED!! When Lina was in a long nap phase. 
  • Wean from the pump - ACHIEVED!! Zippity doo dah, zippity aye...freedom. 
  • Paint, have a back splash installed in the kitchen, and find some fab curtains to hang around the slider - I keep trying to convince Chris to make a trip to the tile store with me but I get the feeling he isn't really digging this goal. We did make a pilgrimage to the paint store though and asked for some help choosing a color that would work nicely with our family room and dining room colors.  At the moment, we are leaning toward Moroccan Spice. I think it will look nice if we choose a lighter back splash. 
  • Convert the existing office into a playroom for Evelina - I have started to put my vision together for the room and we selected a color that will compliment the other colors on the first floor (Wheatfield).  I'm not sure if I'm in love with it, but the swatches I painted are starting to grow on me.  In the next week or so, Chris and I are going to start clearing out the room. 
  • Hold a yard sale - Chris and I talk about this each time we walk through the basement. We need to dedicate a weekend to go through everything we have and decide what we want to include in the yard sale. In the meantime, I'm thinking about posting a few things of Craig's List. 
  • Plan (and go on) a summer vacation - In Process; We had grand visions of renting a house on the Cape for a week but we would've had to book late last year to get something decent and in our price range.  So, instead we are going to plan some long weekend adventures with Evelina.  Outdoor adventures up north, beach weekends, etc.  
  • Have a date night with Chris AT LEAST once per month - FAILED; Our "baby sitter" AKA, Mimi, had surgery on her foot.  Walking up and down stairs with a cast isn't easy and I'm not ready to hire an actual babysitter yet.  Soon...soon. 
  • Tone up for Kate and Jason's wedding - FAILED; I have maybe lifted a weight 2 times and the wedding is next weekend.  Spanx will be required. 
  • Practice patience -I'm not completely achieving this goal but I'm not failing either.  I am well aware that I'm a work in progress and this is one of my character traits what will improve over time.  I'm trying my best. 
  • *Try* to worry less - Totally FAILING!!  Evelina still not crawling has concerned me, BUT, since she started army crawling a week or so ago, I feel a tad better.  
  • And most importantly, be the best Mommy I can be and have fun!! I'm *trying* to be the best and that's all I can do.  This past month has been very challenging and by the end of many days I just feel defeated.    

Here's hoping for more success in Q2.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Violet Cuteness of the Week || Final Edition

We miss Violet.  It's difficult to adjust to a new routine without her, and even though she slept most of the time and didn't take up much space, the house just has a sense of emptiness about it. The living room without her curled up in her bed, our bedroom without her snoring in her "apartment".  It is sad, we are sad.  We know her spirit will always fill 19 BHL, and we will always remember her being as cute as could be, making everyone smile.  


I should also add, Violet's foster family is super nice...and the best part is, they have an in-ground swimming pool.  If Violet is there during the Summer, she will be able to participate in one of her fave past-times as can be seen here, here and here.  

E and V || Being Nice


I definitely believe that pets play a part in teaching children how to be caring and gentle.  I'm hoping that Violet taught Lina just a little bit about how she should be kind to fuzzy, cute creatures.  They are just too cute.  :-(