You are 14 months old!! Last month came in like a lamb and went out like a lion….thanks to three of your 1st year molars making an appearance. OUCH!! You were NOT happy during the final days of your 13th month. Fevers, endless night-waking, a lot of fussing and clinging, decreased appetite. Teething is no fun. Your papa and I wish we could make the pain go away but we know it is just part of growing up, until then we will continue to give you lots of extra cuddles and the occasional dose if ibuprofen. I keep saying to myself, only 9 more teeth to go!!
You are turning into a little girl more and more each day, even though you aren’t walking yet and still don’t have much hair. I am getting anxious for your first steps. We are positive you are ready and could walk if you put your mind to it but you are a cautious little one. You will walk until your hearts content with your wagon, walk as we hold both of your hands or just one hand. You will even stand and balance for minutes at a time while clapping or playing with toys, BUT, you just don’t want to take any steps on your own. I’ve been trying to convince you that life would be easier if you walked but you aren’t interested. Why would you be when you are such an efficient and fast crawler (studies actually indicate that the longer babies crawl the more coordinated they are, this may be to your benefit…hmmm…maybe you know this)? As for your hair, there has been some growth over the past month; soft, light brown hair with a little wave in the very back. Maybe by the time your 2nd birthday rolls around, you will be able to wear cute hair clips.
It is amazing to us how much you now understand. We can ask you to do so many things and you follow through. “Go get your baby and give her a bottle,” and you will go find your baby doll and start to “feed” her. “Where’s the doggy” and you will “point” to a picture of Violet or other dogs. The list goes on and on. This comes in handy when I have to do something and you are right at my heels. Asking you to go get something and bring it to me gives me a little bit of free time.
Speaking of pointing, you don’t actually point with your pointer finger yet. Yes, this is something that your worry-wart mom is concerned about and I shouldn’t be. You either point with your thumb or your entire hand. I’m sure that your pointer finger will be the finger of choice soon, but for now, you favor that thumb of yours.
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Goofy smile |
You can now show us where you belly button is. Sometimes you will lift your shirt up and other times you will pull it out by your neck and look down your shirt. It is hilarious. It doesn’t stop there; you can also show us where our belly buttons are by lifting our shirts. Pointing out your head and mouth are your other favorites. We are working on other body parts, too, such as, your nose and feet. You did start to stomp your feet this month!! When we sing, “If Your Happy and You Know It”, you will clap and stomp your feet at the right time. It is lots of fun!!
Your Papa and I both limit the amount of time the television is on during your waking hours. Up until a few weeks ago, you were more interested in the remote then actually watching TV, but recently, we have started to let you watch Sesame Street in the morning for a small amount of time and you just love it (don't worry, you still love the remote)!! You smile and giggle at Big Bird and Elmo, and you thoroughly enjoy monster time. I wonder if you actually know what Elmo is saying with his strange voice but I don’t think it matters to you. They are your buddies.
You are obsessed with blowing kisses, walking with your wagon, pulling the leaves off your soft lettuce toy, dropping food from your high chair (still, when will this phase end?), helping me empty and load the dishwasher, doing belly flops on our big bed while giggling or saying “Ahhh”, looking or going outside to see the flowers, doggies, the sound of the train, Gigi (both your giraffe lovey and the word), opening your mouth really wide and putting your hand up to it as if saying “Ah Oh”.
You remain a very sweet and shy little one, but you have spurts of being very mean. Biting and clawing at us instead of being gentle or going after your friend’s hair. It isn’t very nice but we are working on it. You have even become cuddlier over the past month which has been nice. It may be due to your molars but we’ll take it.
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Monthly photo shoot, behind the scenes |
You are proficient with signing more, eat and all done. We attended a signing play date last month and learned some tips and tricks to teach you to sign, so we’ve been working on improving your skills at meal times, when we read books or when we see something that I know the sign for. It has even been fun for me to learn signs for animals and other things that you love. We will keep practicing and maybe you will pick up some others in the next month. You understand so much of what we say that it would be nice if you could communicate by signing until you can actually verbalize the word.
Smiley and happy are two words we use to describe you and so many people agree. Be it family members, friends, your teachers, strangers at the grocery store/target/etc. or restaurants. Everyone loves to see your smile and even your mean face. Smiles are contagious and you always make others smile right back. Even though you are shy around new people and will always put your head on my shoulder and give shy smiles, there are some strangers that must exude some kind of different vibe to you. With these strangers, you will immediately wave and smile. I wonder what is going on in that brain of yours!!
I’m dying to know, will you walk this month? Learn some new words or new signs? Please, please, please!!
You are the sunshine of my life,
Mommy